Rudi

Welcome Drinks

Hatley Castle

Wedding Day

Our Wedding

Rudi | August 22nd, 2025 | 5:00 PM - 7:30 PM

Come join us at Rudi (710 Pandora Ave, Victoria, B.C) for drinks and light bites, and mingle with other wedding guests before the big day!

Wedding Ceremony

The Great Lawn at Hatley Castle | August 23rd, 2025 | 5:00pm-5:30pm

Doors open at 4:30pm, ceremony will commence promptly at 5pm. We would like to have an unplugged ceremony, so we kindly ask all guests to please refrain from using their phones or recording video. Attire: Formal- Men: Jacket (avoid cream colour), dress shirt, slacks, dress shoes, tie (optional)- Women: Floor-length gown, fancy midi dress, cocktail dress or polished pantsuit. Please avoid wearing white, black or red!

Cocktail Hour

The Terrace at Hatley Castle | August 23rd, 2025 | 5:30pm - 7:00pm

Enjoy specially curated cocktails by Richard, Mandy, and Oatmeal, along with some light bites and hors d'oeuvres

Wedding Reception

The Drawing Room at Hatley Castle | August 23rd, 2025 | 7:00pm - 11:00pm

Enjoy a three course meal, speeches, and dancing with the bride &amp; groom!

Schedule

Hatley Castle, built in 1908, served as the former quarters for staff officers at the Royal Roads Military College. Today, it is a federal heritage building featuring gardens, turrets and ballrooms. The castle, designed in the Scottish baronial style, is renowned for its stunning architecture and beautiful surrounding gardens.

Fun fact: The X-men and Deadpool series were both filmed at Hatley Castle!

Address: 2005 Sooke Rd, Victoria, BC V9B 5Y2, Canada

Parking

Hatley Castle is located in Royal Roads University. As you enter the campus from Sooke Road, turn onto University Drive. Follow the road and you will see Hatley Castle on your right. After you see the castle, continue down the road and turn right to reach the Central Parking Lot and purchase a ticket at the pay station. Please follow the path to walk up to Hatley Castle.&nbsp; A copy of the&nbsp;venue map&nbsp;can be found below

Venue

It was a busy October day in 2022, and after back-to-back client sessions, I was finally wrapping up work day. As I caught up on my notifications, my Hinge app buzzed with a notification: "Someone sent you a rose!". I opened it to find Richard’s profile staring back at me. My first thought was "Huh, nice smile!" I even laughed at one of his prompts where he quipped, “I’m colour-blind, so if there are any red flags, I can’t see them." But when I noticed he worked in finance, my excitement fizzled just a little bit - nothing against finance bros, but let’s be real, they don’t always have the best rep in NYC when it comes to dating! Still, I figured why not give it a shot? I was nervous walking into our first date, but once I saw Richard, and felt how warm and kind of a person he is, my nerves quelled. Our first date went so well that it led to a second, and then a third. Before I knew it, Richard was inviting me to his Friendsgiving. He looked a little sheepish when he asked if he could introduce me as his girlfriend, and I said 'yes'! Fast forward to two years later, Richard got down on one knee, and it was the easiest 'yes' of my life - I can't wait to spend the rest of our lives together!

Our Story - Mandy's Edition

I don't usually do this, but I was encouraged to send a "rose" (akin to a 'superlike') to Mandy by a close friend of mine while on Hinge. I couldn't resist her smile or her warmth and figured she'd be well worth the trip to Jersey. Being the gentleman that I am, we had our first date in Jersey City closer to Mandy's apartment (ignoring the fact that I was already in NJ for a football game) where I was charmed by her warm and engaging personality. I could tell right away that she was special, and spent the few weeks regaling my friends about this amazing girl I had met. Boldened, I invited her to meet most of them (a big step in NYC!) and introduced her as my girlfriend. I'm so excited now to be calling her my fiancé, and can't wait to call her my wife!

Our Story - Richard's Edition

Our Story

Meet Our Wedding Party

Cavon Lam

Steve Shin

Janet Kwok

Sandra Shin

Kristy Zhang

Jake Zhu

Ginny Tan

Dixon Yeung

Rebecca Ho

Victor Li

Kelly Ko

Victor Cui

Oatmeal

Elizabeth Shin

Wedding Party

Registry

Q + A

Travel

For guests who are traveling from Vancouver, you can either: 1) Drive to Tsawwassen Ferry Terminal and bring your car onto the ferry with you to Victoria 2) Take a cab/Uber/Lyft to Tsawwassen Ferry Terminal and take the ferry to Victoria

Swartz Bay (Victoria) Ferry Terminal BC Ferries

Hotels

Birds of a Feather Victoria Ocean Lagoon B&B

Four Points by Sheraton Victoria Gateway

For guests wanting to stay closer to downtown Victoria, ~22 minutes drive to Hatley Castle

Victoria Regent Waterfront Hotel & Suites

For guests wanting to stay closer to downtown Victoria, ~22 minutes drive to Hatley Castle

Swans Hotel

Travel & Accommodations

Things to do in Victoria

Tickets:Adult (18 + yrs) - $19.00

Miniature World

The Butchart Gardens

Abkhazi Garden

Royal BC Museum

Things to do in Vancouver

Granville Island Public Market

Would recommend renting a bike and taking a loop around the seawall. Stanley Park offers beautiful views of the Vancouver Harbour and is one of Mandy's favourite spots in the city

Stanley Park

Sea to Sky Gondola

Beautiful neighbourhood with great food, cafes, and shops to check out, along with the Gastown Steam Clock.

Gastown 

Capilano Suspension Bridge Park

Things to Do

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Mandy & Richard

Mandy & Richard

Wedding Party

Meet Our Wedding Party